How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back When She Has a Boyfriend
If you and your ex girlfriend are separated and she has decided to start seeing someone else, you are probably wondering how to get your ex girlfriend back when she has a boyfriend already. Women have a tendency to move on faster than us guys and will sometimes begin a new relationship when yours fizzles and dies.
That is not to say that you cannot get her back though. Most of the time the new relationship will just be a rebound relationship and if you two were together for any length of time, you have a history together and if you do the right things you can get your ex back.
First before we look at how to get her back, you need to make sure you want her back and that you two would be happy together because the last thing you want is to get back together and then have to go through a breakup again. If she is worth it and you want her back then I will show you how to get your ex girlfriend back when she has a boyfriend.
Step 1: You need to accept the fact that she has moved on. I know that this will be hard, but if you really want her back you will need to show her that you are mature about her new relationship and want her to be happy. Most guys don’t do this and end up looking needy and clingy, which will kill your chances at getting back together.
Step 2: Get away from her for a little while. This is also a hard step but it is necessary. You need to disappear for a little while. Use the no contact rule and don’t call, text, email or communicate with her if you can help it. What will happen is that you will not see her dating her new boyfriend and she will not see you and may start to miss you. It does not have to be months before you see her again, but a week or two is fine.
Step 3: Take care of yourself. Since you will not be seeing your ex for a few weeks, you should work on yourself. Go to the gym and get some exercise. Tone up those muscles and start eating healthy. This will not only make you feel better, but will make you more attractive and more confident so when you see your ex again, she will notice a change and may start to want you back and becoming a better person will make others become attracted to you.
Step 4: Make your move. When someone starts a new relationship it is often fun and exciting at first, but then it may die off and all of a sudden your ex will be looking for someone to talk to about her relationship troubles. This is where you can intercept and listen to her. Since you are a changed man now, she will notice you are more confident and more sincere and if you do everything right she may want to gradually get back together.
Keep in mind that there are other ways to get her back when she has a boyfriend and there are faster ways to do it to.